Building bonds

 

Menene ma family tun farko idan babu shakuwa? 

Mutane sukan dauka wai blood kadai shi ne family, abun ya wuce haka. 

 

The parent child relationship is one of the most significant bonds we experience in life. Strong bonds da aka gina tun yaro na kankani contributes to the child’s emotional development and overall well being. 

 

Ki na uwa ko ka na uba amma yaran ku suna tsoron ku, ba wani bond tsakaninku? 

 

Wani ma babansu na dawowa za ka ga sun watse. Ko kuma ka ji an ce

“Ga baba nan”

Sai kowa yayi nasa waje.

Ko kuwa ki na da yara amma suna tsoron su gaya miki idan suna cikin damuwa. 

 

That is why sai a taso yaro na fama da kumbiya kumbiya. Nuku nuku. Sai dai ka ji labarinsu a wani waje. 

 

Wani lokacin sai yaran su fara wata rayuwar ma ba ka sani ba.

 

 You see a lokacin da ku ka yi nesa da yaran ku emotionally to suna jin cewar za su fa iya rayuwa babu ku. Tunda ku din kamar wasu strangers ku ke a wajensu. Sai dai ku fara jin labaransu daga nesa nesa you will be like

 

“wane ne haka? “

 

In today’s world, creating a strong connection with your children is very important. 

 

A ja yara a jiki. 

Shin idan ba ku ja yaran ku a jikinku ba wa za ku jawo? Wa ku ke so su je su fadawa matsaloli su?

That is when suna yara ma kenan. 

 

A lokacin da suka girma suka yi aure ma, distance din ya na kara yawa. 

Guess what? Akwai possibility din su ma su fara rayuwa irin yadda aka musu, wato ya zamana cewar sun kasa building wannan emotional bonds din da yaransu. To mutum zai bayar da abunda ba ya da? 

 

Wasu za ka ga uwa da diya ne,amma sun zama kawaye. Shawararsu daya zancensu daya. Ko fuskar daya ce ta canja to fa daya za ta gane. Sai dai ka ji ana 

 

“Mama menene? Ko wance menene? “ wannan shi ne shakuwa da kaunar juna. 

 

Buillding such closeness with your children is an ongoing process that requires time,effort and patience. Hausawa suka ce

 

“Tun ran gini ran zane”

 

 Spend quality time with them,ayi wasa a yi dariya. Magana in za ku yi saka su a ciki, ku ji na su raayin. 

 

Listen to them. Idan korafi suka kawo ma ka ko shawara ka saurare su. Ba wai ayi ta kyarar yaro ba ana cewa ya na shirme. 

 

Communicate with them

Show affection, show some love. Wane /wance me ke damun ku? Me ya faru? Ya aka yi? 

 

Ku tausaya mu su. ‘Yan’yanku ne. 

Ku so su.

 

Idan kun mu su haka, shi ke kawo su ji tausayin ku a gaba. Irin haka shi ke kawo shakuwa, da kauna da jin kai. 

 

Yaya relationship din ku yake da yaran ku? 

 

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Red Part 1

Fatima
“Ah this long queue, abeg” I said as I approached the ATM beside our house.
I stood for a few minutes, “when will it come to my turn, gaskiya Banda lokaci let me be going” I said to my self as I took my leave
. “Hello come and go before me” called out a young man. I turned
“Ah thank you” I quickly ran in front of him as the people in the queue grumbled.
Thank you I said with a big smile.
You are welcome he said.
To be frank with you I didn’t give him a second look, I withdrew my money, thanked him and I was on my way.
He quickly followed me.
“I didn’t catch your name miss”
“I didn’t throw it” I said.
Haba now this is not how you respond to your knight in shining armour
Knight ke” i let out a loud laugh
“Ok what’s your name at least, do you mind if I drop you?” He asked.
“My house is down the road so don’t worry and yes my name is Fatima”
“Oh you see this is meant to be, you have my mom”s name, can I call you mama na?”
“Well you can call me Ummi, that’s what my family call me ” I said.
“Can I see your phone” he asked
“why” I asked as I looked at my shattered screen. I quickly hid it with my veil.
I want to dial my number, so you can have my number, you need me in your life” He said with a smirk
“Is that what you say to every girl” I asked
“No just the ones I like” he said
‘Let me go”
I wouldn’t let you go until you give me your number or instagram handle or snap” he said smiling
For the first time we locked eyes, I felt some electric surge down my body, he is a fine man I ain’t got lie.
“08134435581, can I go now?”
“Wait now, haba mana ummi na”
“Ummin ka? You are such a charmer just now now I am your ummi?” I asked with a smile.
“Yo da ta wacece”
Tun da kinki na rage miki hanya shi ke nan. He opened his car and started the ignition.
Suddenly my phone rang.
“Aren’t you going to pick that? Mijin ki na kira baza ki dauka ba” he said with a broad smile and drove off
Omo wetting be this, this guy wan carry me go where I no know!!!

Ahmed.
Hello, ya how far kana ina? I asked as I placed a call to jibrilla
Jibrilla is my best fried and my partner in crime.
“Guy I just met the girl of my dreams”
“Please free me, I don’t have energy for your dreams or your girls” he said
“Walahi this girl is what I want, exactly fa komai da komai “ I said.
“ Yanzu dai where are you, are you in the office”
“No walahi Baba sent me to Senator Rufai’s office to drop some documents, on my way as we speak, lets just meet later at the spot” he said
“Ba matsala, see you later” I said
Just then I realised I forgot to withdraw the money that made me stop at the ATM in the first place. Shit!!!!

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