Financial Independence

Safiyyah Ishak July 16, 2024
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The world is full of uncertainties, hakan ne ya sa ya zama dole mutum ya tashi ya nemi na kan sa. 

 

Rayuwa za ta yiwu a ce kullum sai ka tambayi wani? Ka dogara da wani kan cewar lallai-lallai shi zai ba ka? 

 

Bani-bani ma ai ba za ta yiwu ba, domin ka tambaya yau ka tambaya gobe, jibi aka gan ka sai a daure fuska. 

 

Abin ba zai yiwu ba ko da kuwa mutum shi ya haifeka. Akwai gajiyawa musamman idan an girma an wuce tambayar iyaye, kai ne ms ya kamata ka mikowa iyayen tunda su sun gama na su. 

Mutuncin mai shi da marar shi ma ba ɗaya ba ne, in an zo taron family sai ka ji ana cewa

 

“A jira shi ya zo”

“Bari ya karaso”

 

Ba ruwanku da raɓe-raɓe cikin abokai ko kawaye. Confidence din mai dogaro da kai da marar shi ma ba ɗaya ba ne. 

 

Ga shi da ɗan aninin ka a aljihu, za ka taimaki wanda kake so kai ma kayi ta ka hidimar. Babu abinda ya fi ban haushi irin ka ga abu ka naso amma ya karfinka. 

 

Ba maganar mace ko namiji. 

Dogaro da kai is not an option, necessity ne a rayuwar yanzu. 

Mutane dayawa na ganin cewar ai mata ba sai sun dogara da kansu ba, in dai suka samu mai kula da su shikenen. To amma a wannan duniyar ta yanzu da kowa ke fama da kansa i feel mata su ya fi kamata ma su dogara da kansu financially. 

 

Ko miji me kuɗi ki ke aure, to fa ba ya son bani-bani. Bani-bani na kawo raini. Amma idan a ce ka na da naka, to fa duk abunda ka ga dama shi za ka yi da shi. Ka sayi abinda ka ke so a lokacin da ka ke so. I feel wannan ma ‘yanci ne na rayuwa. 

 

Don haka nema ya wajaba akan kowa da kowa, Idan mutum bai nema ba, to fa zai iya wayar gari a cikin wani irin hali. 

 

Ina ga kwanan nan ba dadewa mu ka ga hirar wata mata on social media da wani gidan jarida, inda take labarta halin da ta shiga bayan mutuwar mijinta. Ya bar ta da yara kuma ba ta ajiye ba, ba kuma ta ba wani ajiya ba. 

 

Wasu daga irin haka za ka ga sun shiga wata muguwar rayuwa daga ita har yaran. Haka mata dayawa bayan mutuwar mazajensu sun koma bara ne, wasu har karuwanci just to survive. 

 

That very person da ka ke tunanin ya tsaya ma ka

 

Is it your father? 

Your mother? 

Aa yayanka ne

Aa mijinki ne

 

Toh fa these people do not live forever.

Za a wayi gari wataran ko ba rashin rai ba akwai rabuwa. Idan rayuwarsu ta kare to fa kai ta ka ba karewa tayi ba. 

 

Shikenan sai ka yi mutuwar tsaye? 

Wani shiri ku ka yi wa rayuwarku a yanzu game da dogaro da kai? 

 

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Red Part 1

Fatima
“Ah this long queue, abeg” I said as I approached the ATM beside our house.
I stood for a few minutes, “when will it come to my turn, gaskiya Banda lokaci let me be going” I said to my self as I took my leave
. “Hello come and go before me” called out a young man. I turned
“Ah thank you” I quickly ran in front of him as the people in the queue grumbled.
Thank you I said with a big smile.
You are welcome he said.
To be frank with you I didn’t give him a second look, I withdrew my money, thanked him and I was on my way.
He quickly followed me.
“I didn’t catch your name miss”
“I didn’t throw it” I said.
Haba now this is not how you respond to your knight in shining armour
Knight ke” i let out a loud laugh
“Ok what’s your name at least, do you mind if I drop you?” He asked.
“My house is down the road so don’t worry and yes my name is Fatima”
“Oh you see this is meant to be, you have my mom”s name, can I call you mama na?”
“Well you can call me Ummi, that’s what my family call me ” I said.
“Can I see your phone” he asked
“why” I asked as I looked at my shattered screen. I quickly hid it with my veil.
I want to dial my number, so you can have my number, you need me in your life” He said with a smirk
“Is that what you say to every girl” I asked
“No just the ones I like” he said
‘Let me go”
I wouldn’t let you go until you give me your number or instagram handle or snap” he said smiling
For the first time we locked eyes, I felt some electric surge down my body, he is a fine man I ain’t got lie.
“08134435581, can I go now?”
“Wait now, haba mana ummi na”
“Ummin ka? You are such a charmer just now now I am your ummi?” I asked with a smile.
“Yo da ta wacece”
Tun da kinki na rage miki hanya shi ke nan. He opened his car and started the ignition.
Suddenly my phone rang.
“Aren’t you going to pick that? Mijin ki na kira baza ki dauka ba” he said with a broad smile and drove off
Omo wetting be this, this guy wan carry me go where I no know!!!

Ahmed.
Hello, ya how far kana ina? I asked as I placed a call to jibrilla
Jibrilla is my best fried and my partner in crime.
“Guy I just met the girl of my dreams”
“Please free me, I don’t have energy for your dreams or your girls” he said
“Walahi this girl is what I want, exactly fa komai da komai “ I said.
“ Yanzu dai where are you, are you in the office”
“No walahi Baba sent me to Senator Rufai’s office to drop some documents, on my way as we speak, lets just meet later at the spot” he said
“Ba matsala, see you later” I said
Just then I realised I forgot to withdraw the money that made me stop at the ATM in the first place. Shit!!!!

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