To The Bride And Bestie

Ƙawance tun zamanin Aunty da Uncle na Nursery da Primary. A tafi Islamiyya tare a dawo ana gulmar Malam wane saboda yayi dukan hadda. Da kallo kawai kuna iya yin hira sai dai dariyar ku ta cika aji. Abin takaici ko bulala ake yi muku, you still manage to laugh as long as you are together. Rayuwa ce full of innocence, tun kuna kwailaye har kowacce ta dauki shape din kwalbar minerals. 

Danginku duka sun san ku tare. You know each other’s crush and first love. Ku ne compaign officers din juna wajen zaben saurayi. Idan anyi fada ku shirya su. Yawon fitar da anko, gajiyar rabon kati da duk wani fadi tashin aure idan lokaci yayi you do it selflessly. Komai ke ake kira saboda kusancin ku har a kaita dakin mijin ta. Daga nan kuma sai ku kasa gane juna. You feel she is neglecting you, she feels you do not understand her. Friends become strangers. 

Bestie, yanzu fa kawarki a karkashin ikon wani take. Addini ya fifita umarninsa akan na kowa. With that new status, there are odd hours that you should not expect her to talk or chat with you. Fita unguwa yanzu sai anyi mata izini, idan mai kulle ta aura iyayenta ma sai sun yi hakuri. Wahalar da ki ka sha da bikinta kuwa sai dai wata tayi miki. Not because she does not care. Aure nauyi ne dashi kuma rayuwar sirri ce da bai kamata ta fito miki da komai ba sai abin da ya dace. 

Amarya change of status does not mean change of your circle. Keep your friends and treat them with kindness. Afterall, aure aka daura miki ba wulakanci ba. Whenever your friend needs you kuma situation ya sa you cannot be there for her, do not rub it in kina hura hanci ai ke aure gare ki. She is your friend, explain to her kindly without having to paint your spouse a villain. ‘Babu ruwanki da kawaye’ da iyaye ke fada lokacin aure ba yana nufin ki kori naki ba. It’s just an advice for you to know that there is a boundary you should not cross now da sunan kawance.    

Please be understanding, treat each other with respect and your precious bond will only grow stronger. 

 Kina da kawar da ku ka rabu bayan daya daga cikin ku tayi aure? Me ya hada ku? Let’s learn from your experiences. 

 

 

 

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Red Part 1

Fatima
“Ah this long queue, abeg” I said as I approached the ATM beside our house.
I stood for a few minutes, “when will it come to my turn, gaskiya Banda lokaci let me be going” I said to my self as I took my leave
. “Hello come and go before me” called out a young man. I turned
“Ah thank you” I quickly ran in front of him as the people in the queue grumbled.
Thank you I said with a big smile.
You are welcome he said.
To be frank with you I didn’t give him a second look, I withdrew my money, thanked him and I was on my way.
He quickly followed me.
“I didn’t catch your name miss”
“I didn’t throw it” I said.
Haba now this is not how you respond to your knight in shining armour
Knight ke” i let out a loud laugh
“Ok what’s your name at least, do you mind if I drop you?” He asked.
“My house is down the road so don’t worry and yes my name is Fatima”
“Oh you see this is meant to be, you have my mom”s name, can I call you mama na?”
“Well you can call me Ummi, that’s what my family call me ” I said.
“Can I see your phone” he asked
“why” I asked as I looked at my shattered screen. I quickly hid it with my veil.
I want to dial my number, so you can have my number, you need me in your life” He said with a smirk
“Is that what you say to every girl” I asked
“No just the ones I like” he said
‘Let me go”
I wouldn’t let you go until you give me your number or instagram handle or snap” he said smiling
For the first time we locked eyes, I felt some electric surge down my body, he is a fine man I ain’t got lie.
“08134435581, can I go now?”
“Wait now, haba mana ummi na”
“Ummin ka? You are such a charmer just now now I am your ummi?” I asked with a smile.
“Yo da ta wacece”
Tun da kinki na rage miki hanya shi ke nan. He opened his car and started the ignition.
Suddenly my phone rang.
“Aren’t you going to pick that? Mijin ki na kira baza ki dauka ba” he said with a broad smile and drove off
Omo wetting be this, this guy wan carry me go where I no know!!!

Ahmed.
Hello, ya how far kana ina? I asked as I placed a call to jibrilla
Jibrilla is my best fried and my partner in crime.
“Guy I just met the girl of my dreams”
“Please free me, I don’t have energy for your dreams or your girls” he said
“Walahi this girl is what I want, exactly fa komai da komai “ I said.
“ Yanzu dai where are you, are you in the office”
“No walahi Baba sent me to Senator Rufai’s office to drop some documents, on my way as we speak, lets just meet later at the spot” he said
“Ba matsala, see you later” I said
Just then I realised I forgot to withdraw the money that made me stop at the ATM in the first place. Shit!!!!

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