Ya Ake Dealing Da Miji Mai Gori?

Marriage is a timeless union, a journey marked by love, growth, and commitment. To amma sai dai me? Mutanen na jin labarin aure na burgewa amma su kan manta da cewar akwai challenges.

 

Marriage is beautiful, absolutely, but it is not perfect. Abubuwa sukan taso wani lokacin har ta kai you ask yourself “Wane ne kuwa or wance ce kuwa? “

 

A lot of times mata na facing challenges masu yawa a gidan aure, wani abun ma za ka ga ba sa iya fada.Dalilin ganin cewar ka na korafi sai a ce ayi hakuri. Sai ka dinga jin abubuwa irinsu

 

“ki je kiyi hakuri a gidan mijinki haka kowa ke yi”

 

“Gwara ke ita wance ma kaza da kaza ake ma ta wanda ya fi na ki”

 

Shi ya sa abu na cin ka a rai amma sai ka hakura. Sai dai a irin wadannan platforms din idan magana ta taso, sai ka ji labari shigen na ka. 

 

Batun yau dai guda daya ne, Idan miji na da gori ya mace za ta yi? 

 

Anan ana maganar maigida zai yi ma ki abu daidai gwargwado ki na farin ciki yana farinciki

 

To amma me? bacin ran sai ranar da dan fada ya hada ku

Sai gori!!

 

Gori irin na terere

Duk abunda ya miki ko ya shekara goma sai ya ambato ya goranta.

Har petty things like recharge card

 

“Nan nan kika ce min ba ki da kati na sa miki,duk baki gani ba. Sai yanzu har kin iya ki zo ina magana kina magana”

 

“Ina shekara biyu da suka wuce na dauki jari na baki in don halinki ne zan baki?”

 

“Nan nan ki ka ce min kawunki ba ya da lafiya muka je duba shi na dauki dubu ashirin na ba shi duk ban yi ba? Shi ne za ki zo mun da wani zance….”

 

“Kudin mota ma idan za ki fita ni na ke ba ki”

 

Ga su nan dai kala kala

Komai sai ya goranta

Tun daga cefanen gida har kayan sawa

 

“Ina ce kwanan nan na saya miki ankon bikin kanwarki, shi ne har kin manta ko? “

 

In this situation the wife feels humiliated.

 

Ba dama ta yi magana sai a ce ba ta da hakuri ba juriya. 

 

Wani ma zai je to an extent na cewar abubuwan da ya siya zai karbe. Kaya ne, takalma ne. Wani har waya ma. Watakila kuma sai abubuwa sun lafa an shirya sai ya dauka ya dawo ma ta da su. 

 

So, how does one deal with this situation?

How is one supposed to react?

 

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Red Part 1

Fatima
“Ah this long queue, abeg” I said as I approached the ATM beside our house.
I stood for a few minutes, “when will it come to my turn, gaskiya Banda lokaci let me be going” I said to my self as I took my leave
. “Hello come and go before me” called out a young man. I turned
“Ah thank you” I quickly ran in front of him as the people in the queue grumbled.
Thank you I said with a big smile.
You are welcome he said.
To be frank with you I didn’t give him a second look, I withdrew my money, thanked him and I was on my way.
He quickly followed me.
“I didn’t catch your name miss”
“I didn’t throw it” I said.
Haba now this is not how you respond to your knight in shining armour
Knight ke” i let out a loud laugh
“Ok what’s your name at least, do you mind if I drop you?” He asked.
“My house is down the road so don’t worry and yes my name is Fatima”
“Oh you see this is meant to be, you have my mom”s name, can I call you mama na?”
“Well you can call me Ummi, that’s what my family call me ” I said.
“Can I see your phone” he asked
“why” I asked as I looked at my shattered screen. I quickly hid it with my veil.
I want to dial my number, so you can have my number, you need me in your life” He said with a smirk
“Is that what you say to every girl” I asked
“No just the ones I like” he said
‘Let me go”
I wouldn’t let you go until you give me your number or instagram handle or snap” he said smiling
For the first time we locked eyes, I felt some electric surge down my body, he is a fine man I ain’t got lie.
“08134435581, can I go now?”
“Wait now, haba mana ummi na”
“Ummin ka? You are such a charmer just now now I am your ummi?” I asked with a smile.
“Yo da ta wacece”
Tun da kinki na rage miki hanya shi ke nan. He opened his car and started the ignition.
Suddenly my phone rang.
“Aren’t you going to pick that? Mijin ki na kira baza ki dauka ba” he said with a broad smile and drove off
Omo wetting be this, this guy wan carry me go where I no know!!!

Ahmed.
Hello, ya how far kana ina? I asked as I placed a call to jibrilla
Jibrilla is my best fried and my partner in crime.
“Guy I just met the girl of my dreams”
“Please free me, I don’t have energy for your dreams or your girls” he said
“Walahi this girl is what I want, exactly fa komai da komai “ I said.
“ Yanzu dai where are you, are you in the office”
“No walahi Baba sent me to Senator Rufai’s office to drop some documents, on my way as we speak, lets just meet later at the spot” he said
“Ba matsala, see you later” I said
Just then I realised I forgot to withdraw the money that made me stop at the ATM in the first place. Shit!!!!

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