When Age Is Not Just A Number

Whether you say it out loud or not, one of the fundamentals of marriage is the licence to quench your intimate desires. But what happens when your one-way ticket is a bit rusty? 

Maganar gaskiya ladies in their late teens or early twenties find it difficult to cope after saying yes to dan sittuna ko saba’una. Ci, sha da sutura ba su kadai ne aure ba. Idan mai kudi ne, even the Oga wife lifestyle will seem less and less appealing as time goes on.  

Da yawa ana samun first couple of years dama dama. But in three to five years when she is in her prime, full of vigour and vitality, the man may already be a grandpa. Age actually takes a toll on this part of marriage. The desires subside on their own saboda an sha miya. The body wears as it declines to full old age. Sai yawan gajiya da tarin damuwa as responsibilities keep piling. Wani yana gama cin abinci a wurin zai bingere bayan kin wuni kina shan yan abubuwan ki. Sai kaga mace tun tana haƙuri har sai an fara hide my ID yau wata uku rabon da a je other room. Idan ba ayi dace ba ta fara nemawa kan ta mafita elsewhere. 

Maganin kar ayi kar a soma! 

Ofcourse kowa abokin zamansa zai aura amma ko malaman addini suna hana irin wannan auren saboda matsalolin da ake samu a gaba a wannan zamanin.  

Mazan jiya were healthier and life was easier. Yanzu kuwa daga fourty wani ya fara shan supplements to boost libido and energy. Sinadaran girki, processed foods and drinks duk sun tafi da kuzarin bayin Allah. Daga washh kafa sai washh baya. Haihuwa biyu karfi ya kare. To ina ga wanda biological clock dinsa has been ticking tun kafin a haifi Mama? 

What do you think about age in marriage? 

 

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Fatima
“Ah this long queue, abeg” I said as I approached the ATM beside our house.
I stood for a few minutes, “when will it come to my turn, gaskiya Banda lokaci let me be going” I said to my self as I took my leave
. “Hello come and go before me” called out a young man. I turned
“Ah thank you” I quickly ran in front of him as the people in the queue grumbled.
Thank you I said with a big smile.
You are welcome he said.
To be frank with you I didn’t give him a second look, I withdrew my money, thanked him and I was on my way.
He quickly followed me.
“I didn’t catch your name miss”
“I didn’t throw it” I said.
Haba now this is not how you respond to your knight in shining armour
Knight ke” i let out a loud laugh
“Ok what’s your name at least, do you mind if I drop you?” He asked.
“My house is down the road so don’t worry and yes my name is Fatima”
“Oh you see this is meant to be, you have my mom”s name, can I call you mama na?”
“Well you can call me Ummi, that’s what my family call me ” I said.
“Can I see your phone” he asked
“why” I asked as I looked at my shattered screen. I quickly hid it with my veil.
I want to dial my number, so you can have my number, you need me in your life” He said with a smirk
“Is that what you say to every girl” I asked
“No just the ones I like” he said
‘Let me go”
I wouldn’t let you go until you give me your number or instagram handle or snap” he said smiling
For the first time we locked eyes, I felt some electric surge down my body, he is a fine man I ain’t got lie.
“08134435581, can I go now?”
“Wait now, haba mana ummi na”
“Ummin ka? You are such a charmer just now now I am your ummi?” I asked with a smile.
“Yo da ta wacece”
Tun da kinki na rage miki hanya shi ke nan. He opened his car and started the ignition.
Suddenly my phone rang.
“Aren’t you going to pick that? Mijin ki na kira baza ki dauka ba” he said with a broad smile and drove off
Omo wetting be this, this guy wan carry me go where I no know!!!

Ahmed.
Hello, ya how far kana ina? I asked as I placed a call to jibrilla
Jibrilla is my best fried and my partner in crime.
“Guy I just met the girl of my dreams”
“Please free me, I don’t have energy for your dreams or your girls” he said
“Walahi this girl is what I want, exactly fa komai da komai “ I said.
“ Yanzu dai where are you, are you in the office”
“No walahi Baba sent me to Senator Rufai’s office to drop some documents, on my way as we speak, lets just meet later at the spot” he said
“Ba matsala, see you later” I said
Just then I realised I forgot to withdraw the money that made me stop at the ATM in the first place. Shit!!!!

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